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The Mind and
Heart of the Negotiator
(Fourth Edition)
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by Leigh L. Thompson
(Upper Saddle River, New Jersey
Pearson Prentice Hall)
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Full Contents
Preface
Overview
Negotiation: Definition and Scope
Negotiation as a Core Management Competency
Dynamic Nature of Business
Interdependence
Competition
Information Age
Globalization
Most People Are Ineffective Negotiators
Negotiation Sandtraps
Why People Are Ineffective Negotiators
Egocentrism
Confirmation Bias
Satisficing
Self-Reinforcing Incompetence
Debunking Negotiation Myths
Myth 1: Negotiations Are Fixed-Sum
Myth 2:You Need to Be Either Tough or Soft
Myth 3: Good Negotiators Are Born
Myth 4: Experience Is a Great Teacher
Myth 5: Good Negotiators Take Risks
Myth 6: Good Negotiators Rely on Intuition
Learning Objectives
The Mind and Heart
CHAPTER 2 Preparation: What to Do Before Negotiation
Self-Assessment
What Do I Want?
What Is My Alternative to Reaching Agreement
in This Situation?
Determine Your Reservation Point
Be Aware of Focal Points
Beware of Sunk Costs
Do Not Confuse Your Target Point with Your
Reservation Point
Identify the Issues in the Negotiation
Identify the Alternatives for Each Issue
Identify Equivalent Multi-issue Proposals
Assess Your Risk Propensity
Endowment Effects
Am I Going to Regret This?
Violations of the Sure Thing Principle
Do I Have an Appropriate Level of Confidence?
Sizing Up the Other Party
Who Are the Other Parties?
Are the Parties Monolithic?
Counterparties' Interests and Position
Counterparties' BATNAs
Situation Assessment
Is the Negotiation One Shot, Long Term,
or Repetitive?
Do the Negotiations Involve Scarce Resources,
Ideologies, or Both?
Is the Negotiation One of Necessity
or Opportunity?
Is the Negotiation an Exchange or
Dispute Situation?
Are Linkage Effects Present?
Is Agreement Required?
Is It Legal to Negotiate?
Is Ratification Required?
Are Time Constraints or Other Time-Related
Costs Involved?
Are Contracts Official or Unofficial?
Where Do the Negotiations Take Place?
Are Negotiations Public or Private?
Is Third-Party Intervention a Possibility?
What Conventions Guide the Process of
Negotiation (Such as Who Makes the First Offer)?
Do Negotiations Involve More Than One Offer?
Do Negotiators Communicate Explicitly or Tacitly?
Is a Power Differential a Factor Between Parties?
Is Precedent Important?
Conclusion
CHAPTER 3 Distributive Negotiation: Slicing the Pie
The Bargaining Zone and the Negotiation Dance
Bargaining Surplus
Negotiator’s Surplus
Pie-Slicing Strategies
Strategy 1: Assess Your BATNA and Improve It
Strategy 2: Determine Your Reservation Point, But
Do Not Reveal It
Strategy 3: Research the Other Party’s BATNA
and Estimate Their Reservation Point
Strategy 4: Set High Aspirations (Be Realistic,
But Optimistic)
Strategy 5: Make the First Offer (If You Are Prepared)
Strategy 6: Immediately Reanchor if the Other
Party Opens First
Strategy 7: Plan Your Concessions
Strategy 8: Support Your Offers with Facts
Strategy 9: Appeal to Norms of Fairness
Strategy 10: Do Not Fall for the “Even Split” Ploy
The Most Commonly Asked Questions
Should I Reveal My Reservation Point?
Should I Lie About My Reservation Point?
Should I Try to Manipulate the Other Party’s
Reservation Point?
Should I Make a “Final Offer” or Commit to a Position?
Saving Face
The Power of Fairness
Multiple Methods of Fair Division
Situation-Specific Rules of Fairness
Social Comparison
The Equity Principle
Restoring Equity
Procedural Justice
Fairness in Relationships
Egocentrism
Wise Pie Slicing
Consistency
Simplicity
Effectiveness
Justifiability
Consensus
Generalizability
Satisfaction
Conclusion
CHAPTER 4 Win-Win Negotiation: Expanding the Pie
What Is Win-Win Negotiation Anyway?
Telltale Signs of Win-Win Potential
Does the Negotiation Contain More
Than One Issue?
Can Other Issues Be Brought In?
Can Side Deals Be Made?
Do Parties Have Different Preferences
Across Negotiation Issues?
A Pyramid Model
Most Common Pie-Expanding Errors
False Conflict
Fixed-Pie Perception
Strategies That Do Not Really Work
Commitment to Reaching a Win-Win Deal
Compromise
Focusing on a Long-Term Relationship
Adopting a Cooperative Orientation
Taking Extra Time to Negotiate
Strategies That Work
Perspective Taking
Ask Questions About Interests and Priorities
Provide Information About Your Interests and Priorities
Unbundle the Issues
Make Package Deals, Not Single-Issue Offers
Make Multiple Offers of Equivalent Value Simultaneously
Structure Contingency Contracts by
Capitalizing on Differences
Presettlement Settlements (PreSS)
Search for Postsettlement Settlements
A Strategic Framework for Reaching Integrative Agreements
Resource Assessment
Assessment of Differences
Offers and Trade-Offs
Acceptance/Rejection Decision
Prolonging Negotiation and Renegotiation
Do Not Forget About Claiming
Conclusion
PART II: ADVANCED NEGOTIATION SKILLS
CHAPTER 5 Developing a Negotiating Style
Tough Versus Soft Negotiators
Motivational Orientation
Assessing Your Motivational Style
Strategic Issues Concerning Motivational Style
Interests, Rights, And Power Model of Disputing
Assessing Your Approach
Strategic Issues Concerning Approaches
Emotions and Emotional Knowledge
Emotions and Moods
Expressed Versus Felt Emotion
Genuine Versus Strategic Emotion
Negative Emotion
Emotional Intelligence
Positive Emotion
Emotional Intelligence and Negotiated Outcomes
Strategic Advice for Dealing with Emotions at the Table
Conclusion
CHAPTER 6 Establishing Trust and Building a Relationship
The People Side of Win-Win
Trust as the Bedrock of Negotiation
Three Types of Trust in Relationships
Building Trust: Rational and Deliberate Mechanisms
Building Trust: Psychological Strategies
What Leads to Mistrust?
Repairing Broken Trust
Reputation
Relationships in Negotiation
Negotiating with Friends
Negotiating with Businesspeople
When in Business with Friends and Family
Bottom Line on Relationships
Conclusion
CHAPTER 7 Power, Persuasion, and Ethics
Your BATNA Is Your Most Important Source
of Power in Negotiation
Sources of Power
Analyzing Your Power
Persuasion Tactics
Two Routes to Persuasion
Central Route Persuasion Tactics
Peripheral Route Persuasion Tactics
The Effects of Power on Those Who Hold Power
The Effects of Power on Those with Less Power
Ethical Negotiation
Lying
Other Questionable Negotiation Strategies
Sins of Omission and Commission
Costs of Lying
Under What Conditions Do People Engage in Deception?
Psychological Bias and Unethical Behavior
Conclusion
CHAPTER 8 Creativity and Problem Solving in Negotiations
Creativity in Negotiation
Test Your Own Creativity
What Is Your Mental Model of Negotiation?
Haggling
Cost-Benefit Analysis
Game Playing
Partnership
Problem Solving
Creative Negotiation Agreements
Fractionating Problems into Solvable Parts
Finding Differences: Issue Alignment and Realignment
Expanding the Pie
Bridging
Cost Cutting
Nonspecific Compensation
Structuring Contingencies
Threats to Effective Problem Solving and Creativity
The Inert Knowledge Problem
Availability Heuristic
Representativeness
Anchoring and Adjustment
Unwarranted Causation
Belief Perseverance
Illusory Correlation
Just World
Hindsight Bias
Functional Fixedness
Set Effect
Selective Attention
Overconfidence
The Limits of Short-Term Memory
Creative Negotiation Strategies
Multiple Roads Lead to Rome (and an
Expert Understanding)
Feedback
Incubation
Rational Problem-Solving Model
Fluency, Flexibility, and Originality
Brainstorming
Convergent Versus Divergent Thinking
Deductive Reasoning
Inductive Reasoning
Flow
Conclusion
PART III: APPLICATIONS AND SPECIAL SCENARIOS
CHAPTER 9 Multiple Parties, Coalitions, and Teams
Analyzing Multiparty Negotiations
Multiparty Negotiations
Key Challenges of Multiparty Negotiations
Key Strategies for Multiparty Negotiations
Coalitions
Key Challenges of Coalitions
Strategies for Maximizing
Coalitional Effectiveness
Principal-Agent Negotiations
Disadvantages of Agents
Strategies for Working Effectively
with Agents
Constituent Relationships
Challenges for Constituent Relationships
Strategies for Improving
Constituent Relationships
Team Negotiation
Challenges That Face Negotiating Teams
Strategies for Improving Team Negotiations
Intergroup Negotiation
Challenges of Intergroup Negotiations
Strategies for Optimizing Intergroup Negotiations
Conclusion
CHAPTER 10 Cross-Cultural Negotiation
Learning About Cultures
Defining Culture
Culture as an Iceberg
Cultural Values and Negotiation Norms
Individualism Versus Collectivism
Egalitarianism Versus Hierarchy
Direct Versus Indirect Communications
Key Challenges of Intercultural Negotiation
Expanding the Pie
Dividing the Pie
Sacred Values and Taboo Trade-Offs
Biased Punctuation of Conflict
Ethnocentrism
Affiliation Bias
Faulty Perceptions of Conciliation and Coercion
Naïve Realism
Predictors of Success in Intercultural Interactions
Advice for Cross-Cultural Negotiations
Anticipate Differences in Strategy and Tactics
That May Cause Misunderstandings
Analyze Cultural Differences to Identify Differences
in Values That Expand the Pie
Recognize That the Other Party May Not Share
Your View of What Constitutes Power
Avoid Attribution Errors
Find Out How to Show Respect in the Other Culture
Know Your Options for Change
Conclusion
CHAPTER 11 Tacit Negotiations and Social Dilemmas
Business as a Social Dilemma
The Prisoner’s Dilemma
Cooperation and Defection as Unilateral Choices
Rational Analysis
Social Dilemmas
The Tragedy of the Commons
Types of Social Dilemmas
How to Build Cooperation in Social Dilemmas
How to Encourage Cooperation in Social
Dilemmas When Parties Should Not Collude
Escalation of Commitment
Avoiding the Escalation of Commitment in Negotiations
Conclusion
CHAPTER 12 Negotiating via Information Technology
Place-Time Model of Social Interaction
Face-to-Face Communication
Same Time, Different Place
Different Time, Same Place
Different Place, Different Time
Information Technology and Its Effects on Social Behavior
Trust
Status and Power: The “Weak Get Strong” Effect
Social Networks
Risk Taking
Rapport and Social Norms
Paranoia
Strategies for Enhancing Technology-Mediated Negotiations
Initial Face-to-Face Experience
One-Day Videoconference/Teleconference
Schmoozing
Conclusion
Appendix 1 Are You a Rational Person?
Check Yourself
Appendix 2 Nonverbal Communication
and Lie Detection
Appendix 3 Third-Party Intervention
Name Index
Subject Index
